Nonchalant Fashion Digest
A visual merchandiser who believes that fashion and romance are one in the same. I don't hold myself to one particular title, whether it be grunge or girly. My choice of fashion often reflects my mood.

Sunday, June 21, 2015

Prairie Fancy

As you already know, I'm a dreamer. I've explained in previous posts that certain pieces of clothing make me think of different scenarios or themes. When I first saw this dress, "Little house on the Prairie", came to mind. I also had the thought of a woman wearing this dress in a field, having no cares and just taking in the country fresh air that has a hint of Star Jasmine to it. A woman that is so centred with herself that she has this calm sense to her. I'm not that chic...at least not yet anyway. So I hope I translated my vision as close as possible for you guys.

The dress is a busy piece, so I didn't indulge in accessories. I added a vintage statement necklace to add some extra flare to the "Prairie" look. If I was in a country field, I would still want some sort of costume jewelry . I'm weird like that. I didn't include a purse with this look because when you're way off in a field of dreams, do you really need a purse?!

Thanks for tuning in, loves! Have a good Sunday and I'll see you soon!

Until next time,
Xoxo

Dress: H&M
Sandals: Aldo
Necklace: F21

Monday, June 15, 2015

Finish Line

I find it ironic that even though I've been a runner for almost 20 years, I only recently have started to"enjoy" it. I ran track and field as a kid and all throughout my teen years. The events I'd  run were always the 200, 400 and 800. Not going to lie; I was pretty damn fast. For a minute there I had dreams of one day going to the Olympics... don't laugh. But I remember I never really "loved' the sport. I just did it because my family was so proud of me when I would win and it was actually the only thing I was good at. I ran because I had the need to be the best and coming in first at the end of the race was my validation. But, as I grew older in the sport I realized how selfish my way of thinking was. Later in my Senior year of High school I had a couple of team mates that suffered bad injuries and they were never the same. Not only could they not run anymore, but they couldn't be as active again in their day to day lives either. The thought of being young with your body giving out on you for a sport  you didn't have that much interest in anymore  scared me immensely!  I only liked the part when I'd win, (it's okay to laugh at that last statement). After I came to grips with the fact that I couldn't continue on with the sport that I felt gave me a sense of identity, I had to dig a little deeper inside and find what else I was capable of.

Obviously, years later I found my niche. I found my calling in fashion and never regretted my decision to start a new path. It wasn't until after I had my daughter, Millie, that I started back up with running. Selfishly, I needed to lose the weight  I gained while I was pregnant. I knew my body well enough to know that running would be the easiest way to shed the pounds. I would load Millie up in her stroller and go for a  2 mile run about three times a week. Before I knew it, Millie and I were doing 4miles, five times a week. It actually got to the point to where I NEEDED to run! About 3 months back into my running groove, it hit me: "I'm in love with running". How the hell did that happen? I mostly think it's because it's my time to think. I just listen to my music and think about all of the things I'm so grateful and happy about.  That, and the fact that Millie loves it when I go fast. So that pushes me for sure. How funny is it that now I run fast for my daughter's amusement and not for my own validation? Full circle or what!?

For the outfit choice in this post, I'm not going to go into too much detail because this post is simply dedicated to the sport that taught me how to push through pain, how to keep focus and that you're not done with the race until you've crossed the finish line. And most importantly, NEVER GIVE UP!

Until next time,
Xoxo

Top:F21
Sports bra: F21
Shorts: Fila
Shoes: Nike Flynet 4.0



Thursday, May 14, 2015

Mother's Day

This is a late post, I know. But, better late than never, right !?! I hope all the mothers out there had a wonderful Mother's day and your day was full of love and positivity. I hope the new mom's hearts swelled as they received their hand made cards with the glued on macaroni and painted hand prints all over it. And I hope the seasoned mothers got the chance to relax and pamper themselves. And to the mother's that are trying and have yet to receive their bundles from the stork, I especially hope you know this day belongs to you as well. The heart of a woman is enormous and is built to endure more than what we can actually comprehend. Your hearts are, I believe, to be the strongest and most pure. Never lose hope.

I was blessed and most fortunate to be raised by a woman who is both my Mother and Father. A single mother who worked a demanding job as a Paralegal and went to school at nights and still managed to raise three young girls. I know it wasn't easy for her. However, growing up I had no idea that times were hard and that financially we were struggling. And with me being so unaware of the fact that my family was barely getting by, I never felt like I had a disadvantage from the other kids in my neighborhood. I still to this day have no idea how my mother managed to keep me and my other sisters completely unaware to the fact that we were struggling at times. As I write this I am getting choked up because my heart is just so full of love for this woman.  My mother taught me to fight for what I believe in and to never let anyone or anything stand in the way of my vision. God knew I needed you to be my mom.

The outfit for today's post is pretty simple. Chambray tops go with everything and florals are just a must for Sundays. At least that's what I believe anyway. I wore my tribal statement necklace to kind of take apart the girly look the floral skirt gives off. I tied in the colors from the pattern of the skirt with my orange purse to break up some of the business from the overall look. This look is both "Mom" appropriate and "casual lunch date" appropriate. Whatever "appropriate" look you're going for, make sure you wear the best accessory: Confidence!!

Until next time guys,
Xoxo

Chambray top: H&M
Skirt: F21
Heels: Zara
Purse: Michael Kors
Necklace: F21

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Day-cation

I've been waiting for the perfect weather to break out my favorite sundress. I was immediately drawn to this little number specifically because of the the Sunflower print. Fun fact: Sunflowers have always been my favorite flower. For some odd reason they're a big mood lifter for me.
It also helps that the style and print of this dress goes perfectly with the upcoming Summer season. I mean, when I think of Summer I automatically think of sundresses and Sunflowers... that and state fairs along with a delicious funnel cake. Since it's not quite Summer yet and state fairs aren't around for the moment,  I could only bring half of my vision of Summer to you guys in today's post.
I also really wanted to pull together a look that was simple and easy because when the weather has you feeling just as good as it looks outside, you find that you don't have to overcompensate.

Until next time,
Xoxo

Sundress: F21
Arm cuff:F21
Purse: gift from Nigeria
Sandals: F21
Sunglasses: H&M



Thursday, April 2, 2015

Mesh-n' Around

Mesh is a fabric that I feel is often misunderstood. You often find it in lingerie or other risqué fashion. I wanted to make this post about how you can wear Mesh and not look so provocative. By adding a couple of statement pieces, you can take Mesh to a whole new level of sophistication. My silver statement necklace adds dimension to this outfit. Without the addition of the necklace, this outfit would have fallen flat and we all know I like to do a little extra. I also added a camel coloured blazer, which is another statement piece that adds polish. This look works fine with or without the blazer, but I wanted to show how one simple add-on can change a whole outfit. The strappy heeled sandals keep the overall look cohesive, while the side slung purse gave this sophisticated outfit a playful twist. Life is too short to not have a little twist to it.

Until next time,

Xoxo

Mesh dress: F21
Blazer: F21
Under dress: Vintage
Purse: H&M
Heels: Aldo
Necklace: F21

Sunday, March 29, 2015

Low Key

I think I can say with total confidence that we all have those days when we just want to be "low key". Those days when you almost don't feel like putting too much thought into your outfit because you're just taking it easy. While I've never been the type to walk out of the house with an unkept appearance, I do have my days when I want to be as low maintenance as possible. Denim shorts, sandals, a side slung purse and a loosely fitted blouse translates the "no muss-no fuss"vibe for this post. I added the blazer last minute because I liked the way it made the black arrows on my blouse pop. I mean, you really can't go wrong with a simple blazer as the final touch to your outfit.

Until next time loves,
Xoxo

Blazer: F21
Blouse: H&M
Shorts: F21
Sandals: F21
Purse: H&M

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

Florals For Spring

Now, I know what you're thinking: "Florals for Spring.... ground breaking". I believe Miranda Priestly put it best in "Devil wears Prada", when she said that same exact thing. Floral prints during Spring season is a pretty obvious staple piece. After all, it is the time of year when flowers bloom and begin to release their natural fragrances. But, I guess it's all about how you choose to wear this season's obvious pattern. If you're 8 years old, then by all means wear that puffy floral Easter dress your mother bought you. However, a person in their 20's would want to be a little more subtle. For this post I wanted to show how you could wear floral without looking like an eyesore. I added a chambray button down and my blazer to level out the pattern of my dress. And my black booties added a hint of modern edge to this over all girly look. So YES,I wear floral in Spring. Not because I'm BASIC, but because I'm girly- girl at heart with a little edge to me.

Until next time,
Xoxo

Floral Dress: F21
Blazer: Thrift find
Chambray top: F21
Booties: F21